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Adrian posted a condolence
Joey... before your passing, I was not able to “thank you.� I want to thank you for helping me become the father I am to my daughter, the husband I am to my wife and the Marine I am to the Corps. Let me explain... Throughout my upbringing, I did not always have the best role models. I had to search long and hard for a positive mentor. Sure I had good people in my life, but so much negativity surrounded me that it would often cast a dark shadow over the few good examples that I did have. Because of this broken and uncertain road ahead, I had no confidence in my projected future and what was to become of me. Eventually, my tireless and empty handed searches led me to join the Marine Corps. In the Corps, I did finally find what I sought after; structure, clarity, honor, and a sense of belonging. It was shortly after I joined the Marine Corps that I had confronted many personal and moral questions. I found myself asking "What about Joey?" What positive role model does he have back at home? Isn’t he looking precisely where I could find none… Will he come up short the same way I did? It tore me up to know that should I decide to stay in the Marine Corps, it would prevent me from being right there in Rome so that I could personally look after my little brother; providing him with the immediate guidance an older brother could give. What was I to do? I had to weigh the pros and cons. Do I continue to pursue a career in the Marine Corps, far away from my family or do I get out of the Corps and go home. Obviously I decided to stay in the Corps. This brings me to the reasoning behind my thanking you. You see, at the time I decided to stay Marine, I began challenging myself to accomplish much more than I normally would have. I found that I was holding myself to a higher standard than what was expected of me and my peers. Soon I found that I was setting the bar high for myself in everything that I did, as a father and a husband, and life in general. This was largely as a result of attempting to impress my little brother, providing to him a great example. I wanted to show you that happiness and success requires little more than focusing on your goals and following a plan to get there! You Joey were much of the fuel that helped me stay on track; to do the right thing always; to be that ideal big brother that you could emulate. I am therefore indebted and obligated to say THANKS for bringing out the best in me. You always kept me at the top of my game! I do hope that I've lived up to, or even surpassed all of your expectations. At times I was not always the big brother you wanted, but rather the big brother you needed. I am confident that you realized that too. We had our good times you and me; I will cherish them forever in my heart. The distance between us can not be measured in miles as it has been in the past, but no matter, you have been and always will be close to me in my heart...
*Thank you little brother for looking up to me over the years and know now that it is my turn to look up at you. Stand tall at the gates of heaven and watch over us all. I don’t know how, and I don’t know when but rest assured that we will somehow meet again...
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Diane Sjodahl posted a condolence
Bev
My sincere sympathy in the loss of your grandson. I'm sorry I can't be there in person, but my prayers are with you.
Diane Sjodahl
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Christine Castro posted a condolence
Paula,
My heart goes out to you and your family. The loss of a family member is always painful, but to lose a child is more than any parent should have to bare. My thoughts are with you during this time of sorrow.
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Rosemary Latini posted a condolence
Rosemary had many people praying for her recovery.She fought a courageous battle.She was a loving wife and mother.We are happy to have known her and she will be missed. We send our condolences to her husband, Bill,her three daughters,and her entire family.
Ralph & Josephine Agone
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Lindsey Ricci posted a condolence
Wow... something told me to google your name today because I haven't heard from you in years... and I come across this... I can't even believe it I am in so much shock...Bud... I'll never forget you all our long talks back in middle school - highschool. Don't ask me what my own phone number is but I still to do this day remember your old housephone number... It's been a long time and my heart goes to this family and his daughter. Much love
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Darlene Page posted a condolence
Paula, Joe and Kali ...
There are no words to express the pain in my heart for each of you at the loss of your child and your brother. It is these times that I find myself questioning ... why? why? whyyyyyyyyy? The only thing I do know is how much God loves you all, and how much he loved Joey. I pray for His peace and strength to be with you all as you push forward through the pain for Savona's sake. She needs Grandma Paula, Grandpa Joe and Aunt Kali to keep her daddy's memory alive. To Joey's grandmothers; I cannot imagine the pain now that I have my own two grandsons. I remember Joey at his 1st Communion in his little white suit; so pure, so proud and so innocent standing between Grandma and Grandpa Zigrino. I remember that winning smile and the stories he loved to tell. I pray you will always have beautiful memories ...
I love you all,
Your sister Darlene
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Fran and Robert posted a condolence
Joey and my son Robert were very close since kids. Joey was like the big brother Robert didn't have and he took Robert under his wing. As my nephew he was loved and will be missed greatly.
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Cousin Ziggy posted a condolence
To my big little cousin,
Miss ya more than words can explain. We had our ups and downs, but we always managed to be on top. Save a spot for me up there and watch over me.
I love ya
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Aunt Robin posted a condolence
Joey-
I love you so much. You will be missed. It didn't matter what was going on, every time I called you to invite you over, you always came, you never said no. I know that Family meant everything to you. You had great ideas and it was funny, you reminded me of grandpa with all the things you used to come up with. I know you are worried about Savona, don't worry because she will be taken care of and we all will make sure she knows her daddy. I know you are concerned about your mother too, and she has wonder friends, family and her faith will bring her through this. Your father wanted the best for you he knew you had it in you. You were a good boy and were loved very much. My prayers are with you. I will do all I can. God tells us that if we put our Trust in him, and not lean on our own understanding he will direct our path. We have to believe!
Love, Aunt Robin
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Darlene Page posted a condolence
Ace,
I just had to write a separte and special message to you about the big brother you've always been to Joey and to Kali. The example you have shown throughout your life has been as a wonderful role model and a great brother. You were always there for your mom and family and we all are very proud of the man you have become.
Keep the faith hon ...
Love you,
Aunt Dar
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Heather Hines posted a condolence
You will be missed by all.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Cousin Heather - South Carolina
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Jody Scholl posted a condolence
Paula - I was saddened to hear of the passing of your son. He was a great guy! I remember back when he worked with us! He was so funny..he made us all laugh. Through you, his daughter will always know this GREAT Man & Father!!
Remember loved ones never leave
They are forever near
For their love lives on in memories
Our hearts hold dear
Love, Jody
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Gramma Tag posted a condolence
Joey,Josh,Nick, Together again. I know God took you all straght into the light.Now you can watch over the rest of us, til we meet again. Ilove you all dearly. Forever in my heart,Gramma Tag
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Mary Beth Mc Sweeney posted a condolence
My heart goes out to the family at this very trying time.
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Jennifer Ringrose posted a condolence
Joe and I were friends at Strough Jr High. He always looked out for me and treated me like a little sister. He was my friend and I will truly miss seeing him out in Rome. Rest in Peace now Joe.
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Donna Reed posted a condolence
Paula/Nancy and family. My deepest sympathy in your loss,i am Fred Baker's aunt from Rome. Marilyn's sister.Tell Lesile and family my thoughts are with them all.Donna
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Marshall posted a condolence
me and joe played hockey together all those 8 years, he was our goalie we won championships every year,he was a good friend would help you any way he could, we miss you bro look after us
'chief'
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Kim Rankin posted a condolence
Joey, Paula and Kali,
My heart goes out to each of you. You will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that all the wonderful memories you have of Joey - will help you through each day. I love you all.
Kim and John (Raleigh, NC)
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darnel malloni ferrare posted a condolence
joey will always hold a special place in my heart. He was one of the kids we always looked forward to seeing every day for activities and pool. It seems like yesterday all those memories and there are tons of wonderful memories joey provided for all of us that worked with him. my thoughts and prayers are with you Paula joe and kali. paula if you need anything please call. love darnel
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Debbie Wainwright posted a condolence
Paula and family, Words cannot begin to express how deeply sorry I am for the pain you are all enduring at this incredibly difficult time. When things like this happen, it often leaves us wondering WHY in God's name this happened? How will I make it through? We seldom have the answers to these difficult questions, but we must trust in God and believe that our friends and loved ones that are there to offer support will help us through, somehow, someway! Please know, Paula, that I, like so many of your friends, not only those of us at ACS, are here for you, reaching out and offering a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen. Please, remember, death is a heartache that no one can heal, but Love is memory that no one can steal! You and your family continue to be in my prayers. May God Bless you and bring you peace!
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Aunt Pat & Uncle Frank posted a condolence
Joe, Paula & Family...Words cannot express our sadness in hearing of the loss of your son. Our prayers are with you. Draw strength from God and one another to get through this terrible time and remember that Joey lives on in his precious daughter.
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Louie Schipano IV posted a condolence
I met joey in grade school and we had are ups & downs but we always stayed close friends Joey was a great guy — great personality, very humble, just a character in his own right. He was very intelligent; book smart and street smart. It's a shame he's gone .... In ways big and small, your loved one's life touched too many hearts to ever be forgotten. May you find comfort in knowing how many people share your sadness.
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Uncle Johnny & Aunt Cindy posted a condolence
Although you were a grown man,
in our hearts you will always be "Little Joey". We will treasure the sweet memories we have of you.
Good night, God Bless Ya, We Love Ya.
Uncle Johnny & Aunt Cindy
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the hanrahans posted a condolence
fat joe...we wish this was all just a bad dream. you should be here, and we are so sad you are gone. you will be missed my friend. you take care, and get to the gym, you're getting fat!!! I used to tell you that all the time!
miss you lots kid, miss you lots!
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Jodi Nettleton posted a condolence
Paula, Kali and Joe,
I remember Joey as a little man playing with the big kids. He always had a special enthusiastic spirit. I loved working with him and am very sad to see he is gone. Over the past few days I have been thinking about all the fun memories I have of Joey, and everytime I smile. You are all in my prayers and my thoughts.
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Harry & Fran posted a condolence
Paula, Joe & Kali,
No words can express the sadness in our hearts for your loss. Joey was
a wonderful person and we all loved him very much. He will be greatly missed by all of us. We pray that the lord gives you strength at this difficult time.
We love you.
Harry & Fran
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Aunt Fran posted a condolence
Joey I will always remember your smile and laughter, you and Robert grew up together. We shared many precious times together and you hold a special place in my heart. You will be missed but your memories will always be with us. We were blessed when Savona came into our family and will cherish her and see you, her daddy through her. Love you
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Diane Wright posted a condolence
Paula & Family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult and trying time. Love, Diane
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Amanda Peck posted a condolence
Joey- we are going to miss you sooooooo much!!... you were truely one of the sweetest guys i ever met, the 14 years I knew you you never let us down, you were there when any of us needed you! My prayers go out to all of his family .. all my prayers go to our friends that have all grown up with joe.. we all know how much he meant to each of us, we love and miss you Joey!!
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Tonya posted a condolence
My dear cousin Joey:
Words cannot express how much we will all miss you. You brightened every room with your magnetic smile, your laughter, and your charismatic personality. I loved talking with you about the Rangers and the Yankees and just life in general. I know in my heart that you will continue those conversations with Grandpa Zigrino up in heaven. And just knowing that Grandpa is keeping you happy and safe, gives me peace in my heart.
Your wonderful spirit will live on in our memories and in your beautiful daughter. We promise that she will always know how much you loved her.
All my love to you, Joey.
Your cousin,
Tonya
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Gramma Zigrino posted a condolence
To my Grandson,
My heart has a hurt I can't explain. There are no words to ease the pain. I have no answer why your life was taken in its prime. Some of the memories I have: being your teacher in church school.
Grandpa and I picking you up for church. The little gentleman you were to opening the car door for me.
I was so proud when we were asked to carry the gifts at mass.
Grandpa and I coming to your hockey and football games. You were quite an athelete. You took a risky road for a time. I'm sure it was to help you grow.
You were always willing to help in anyway. You and Tammy have your beautiful little girl Savona, who you didn't have much time with, but we will keep your memory alive and tolet her know what a great dad you were. I love you- Gramma Zigrino
I ask everyone who reads this to pray for Joey, for him to be with his grandpa in heaven. Thank you.
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Kristin Hubley posted a condolence
Paula and Family- Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult and trying time. Always remember that we are here for you.
Kristin and Tom Hubley
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Carlos M. Bustamante posted a condolence
My deepest sympathy. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.
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Robin Davis posted a condolence
Paula,
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers for with you and your family.
Love
Robin
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Dolores Niccolai posted a condolence
Paula,
Best wishes to you and your family in your time of loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dolores
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Connie Logue posted a condolence
Paula: I know there are no words I can say to ease your pain. Just know that you and your family are in my prayers.
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Jennifer Crawford posted a condolence
To Paula and Family,
Words may not comfort the pain your feeling and the emotional rollercoaster you may experience, but I want you to know that you are all in my prayers and I have asked god to carry you through this difficult time.
May God Bless you all and may be peace be in your hearts knowing that he is with the Lord...and we will all see him again one day.
Sincerely,
Jennifer Crawford and Family
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Shante Washington posted a condolence
Paula & Kali,
I'm so saddened to hear of your loss...
Openening your hearts to the memories you shared is a profound and meaningful way of honoring a person...
I am Praying for you and your family today and sharing your sadness of losing someone so important in your life.
May God Bless You and see you through this difficult time.
Shante Washington and Family
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Melinda Thomas posted a condolence
Paula -
I sit here trying to find the right words to express my sympathy for the sadness you are feeling and realize that there are no words in which to express how sorry I am for your loss. I have had the following poem for some time and have referred to it often and hope as it has helped me that you to can find comfort in these words.
If God brings you to it,
He will bring you through it.
Happy moments, praise God.
Difficult moments, seek God.
Quiet moments, worship God.
Painful moments, trust God.
Every moment, thank God.
You and your family are in my prayers.
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Wes Freeman Jr. posted a condolence
I dont even know what to say, Joe was my bestfriend would do anything for me no matter what if i needed him at 9 in the morning ( and we all know how joey slept till 3PM) he would be there, joey was my man and there will not be a day that goes by that he wont be on my mind. I feel everyones pain we just lost one of the best. RIP BIG ZIG you will live in my heart forever. I love you brother
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Chrissy posted a condolence
Enjoyed seeing you a couple times last summer, you will be missed.
Love, Chrissy (cousin)
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Chrissy Cummings posted a condolence
Take care of my dad up there, don't party to much. Love and miss you guys always...
Chrissy
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linda sheridan posted a condolence
Dear Paula,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Please accept my deepest sympathies for you and your family.
Fondly,
Linda
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Shawn posted a condolence
Paula- My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong and trust in your friendships and family to maintain and support you during this tough period. I know here at work many of us friends are like family... so please let us know what we can do to help you or your family at any time. I'm sure you now have a great angel looking out for you and probably starting in Goal for the good lords hockey Team!
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Frank Cingranelli posted a condolence
Joe, Paula and Family, I am very sorry for your loss.It has to be the most difficult loss than a person can ever experience.Try to stay strong for the family and your little granddaughter. She will need you now more than ever.You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Frank
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Aunt De and Uncle Frank posted a condolence
Joe,Paula &family,
We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your son.Having four sons of our own,we could not bare the thought of loosing any of them. Please know that you are in our thoughts and in our prayers.
Joe will be missed by all.
May God be with all of you during this time of sorrow.
Aunt De and Uncle Frank
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Barbara Evans posted a condolence
Dear Paula
my most sincere sympathy goes out to you and yours at the time of your loss.
my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Barbara Evans, Jodi's Mom
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Donnie Holmes posted a condolence
we have so many memories i cant explain we went to strough together we hund out everyday for so long i think i gave him the name fedacheny he called me fatboy ima miss him alot
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NORRIS LACY posted a condolence
WE WENT SO FAR IN THIS THING WE CALL LIFE FROM FRIENDS TO BROTHERS AND THAT TAKES SO MUCH TO GO THROUGH TO EVEN CLAIM EACHOTHER WITH A TITLE LIKE THAT HIS FAMILY IS NOW MY FAMILY FROM SCHOOL TO MY LAST BREATH FOREVER MY BROTHER (NORTY AKA LIL BROTHER)
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Niccole Pettinelli posted a condolence
You playing hockey on my brothers hockey team, coming over for pizza and wings after the hockey games....Seeing you out to help you to take care of a problem....You calling me big SIS!!! I'm going to miss you BAG OF DONUTS!!
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Peggy Ludwig posted a condolence
Paula and family,
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of Joe. I can't imagine losing a son and going through what you and your family are going through at this time. I know God is with you and your family at this time guiding you and helping you. God Bless
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Bertha Nunez posted a condolence
Paula,
I cannot imagine what a difficult time this must be for you and your loved ones. I pray that the good Lord would provide you comfort to help ease the pain of your loss. I send you bunches of hugs all the way from Long Beach! Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bertha
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Kathy & Gary Richardson posted a condolence
Dear Paula and family,
There are no words to express how sorry we are to hear about Joey. Please know you are in our prayers and if ever you need someone to talk to we are just a phone call away.
The Richardson's
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Tamara Abbuhl posted a condolence
I dont know where to start.. you were the love of my life and we made a beautiful daughter. she loves you very much and everyone knows it. I will always love you and miss you dearly. we both will. I have all of our memories in my mind and never forget them, good or bad. It was all worth the past 5 years of my life.... the best years of my life. I will love you alaways and forever and so will your little girl. We love you dearly. watch over all of us and keep us safe.
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Robin Trexler Hoke posted a condolence
To the Zigrino Family - My thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. The first thing that came to my mind is that Mr. Zigrino is there with Joey to guide and protect him. Even though it has been way to long since I have seen the family, you all have a very special place in my heart. Love, Robin
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Dave Evans posted a condolence
Paula and Family;
I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Dave
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Mechelle Robinson posted a condolence
I am very sorry for your last.
I share in your sorrow when you lose someone so unexpectedly...
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Shane Willson posted a condolence
Rest peacefully Joey.Though I couldnt be there to celebrate your life, my heart and prayers are there. I love and miss you all.
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Rev. Ron Colangelo posted a condolence
Dear Joe Sr.
We are so very sorry for the loss of your son. Our heartfelt prayers are with you and the family. We do not get the paper. Someone told me today of the sad news.
Joe, You know that you will someday see your son again.
Celebrate , if you can, his life and the impact he made while he was here. He was loved by many.
If there is anything I can do, please call me.
In Him,
RRC
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Mom posted a condolence
my little joey.. I miss you so much!I miss that quirkly little smile and that precious giggle.. I even miss you ranting and raving,I miss you calling to tell me you'd be late coming home, I miss you coming home at all hours of the night.. waking me to say you were home safe, most of all I miss your touch.. your most gentle hugs. As I looked at you lay there.. finally, you looked so peaceful.. a good nights sleep baby.. finally. Lord Jesus take my baby in your arms and hold him, he is a big boy.. but so fragile. Holy Mary, please take care of my Joey... til I get home. We will pray for you every moment of the day my son. Please watch over us.. we all love you so much. I love you, mom
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Stoof (Stephanie Baker) posted a condolence
"I am sorry" will not help, I know there is nothing I can do to make you all feel better, but just know you have family that loves you dearly and that we know how you feel. I love you all so much, and it crushes my heart to know that you have to go through this. The days will go by and before you know it, you will be able to count the days that you cry instead of the days you don't. All of my love and prayers to you all!!!
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Jodi Meola posted a condolence
Paula, Kali, and Adrian,
It is just as difficult today finding the words as it was every other day I have tried to write something to you. So from my observations this week you are and will remain a strong family unit with Joey watching over each of you. Trust in your faith and each other in the days to come. You are in my thoughts and prayers - Jodi
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Amanda posted a condolence
Auntie-I cannot express enough to you how sorry I am. I am here for you, as you are always here for me..I love you!!
Joey- I have sit here for the past five days just asking why?? We had our ups and downs, but always moved on.. I will miss you and always have or memories of growing up together.. Love you!!
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tom sanford posted a condolence
joe i'm very sorry for the lost of your son. my prayers and thoughts are we you and your family
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